The Servant- A Simple Story About the True Essence of Leadership
Title: The Servant: A Simple Story About the True Essence of Leadership
By: James C. Hunter
Key takeaways;
- Listening - “true” listening
- Leadership is a skill - The skill of influencing people to work enthusiastically toward goals identified as being important.
- Leadership is about authority not power.
- “Power - The ability to force or coerce someone to do your will, even if they would choose not to, because of your position or . “
- “Authority: The skill of getting people to willingly do your will because of your personal influence.””
- Upside down triangle, who is closet to the customer, and is what leaders serve
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leaders serve “needs”, not wants. “Leadership begins with aligning our intentions with actions and our choice of behavior, we can choose to Meet the legitimate needs of people (Not wants)- as a result we will have to serve and sacrifice - where we build influence and authority and eventually earn the right to call ourselves leaders. “
- what needs to be a good leader:
+ Patience = showing self control
- Kindness Giving attention, appreciation and encouragement
- Humility = being authentic and without pretense or arrogance
- Respectfulness - treating others as important people
- Selflessness - Meeting the needs of others
- Forgiveness - giving up resentment when wronged
- Honesty - being free from deception (More than not telling lies)
- Commitment - make your choice and stick to it
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Results in service and sacrifice - setting aside your own wants and needs, seeking the greatest good for others
- Environment - leader don’t make things grow - leaders provide the environment and opportunity for it.